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So Feminism, that is what I want to discuss about in this article. The theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes is deemed the reason behind feminism. Using common sense one can think that his emerged during the times when industries were budding up and women actually started to be part of the non domestic workforce. Yeah, I do agree that times were hard back then for women especially when the men were off at war or something else, and not taking care of the households or their children properly. This was also the time when the traditions and morals were beginning to devolve. Domestic violence was up until then not even a concept because that was normal and just a part of life for women and men. The world population was not as high as we have today. This doesn't mean that domestic violence is a good thing, in fact it is awful and incredible disrespectful but i don't know why people talk about it as if every Indian household is a breeding ground for it.
There was not much opportunity for people to be educated or mass media to promote awareness. People just were beginning to realize the perks of having independent and self governed political bodies rather than kingdoms and empires. However to make these all possible everyone had to have the right to opinionate themselves and women were part of this "everyone". But then again psychologically speaking women are more aggressive and emotionally unstable than men and a bit too irrational at times. This is what might have lead to the emergence now popular open relationships, sleeping around to empower the feminine and find the perfect match and other insanely ironic stupid practices.
These so called new generation feminists are not practicing what they preach, rather what they are showcasing is a desire to actually enforce a female dominance instead of a feminine and masculine equality. They ask for equal treatment but set the social standards as the males being responsible for chivalry and knightly behavior meanwhile women are encouraged to act like their male counterparts or absolute B*****s rather than the ladies they are meant to be. Feminism was not intended i think, to be a platform for women to do everything that they wanted to do but to establish a standard for everyone to follow in case of fundamental and individual rights.
The so called wave of sleep around feminism started hitting the Indian society along with the rise of metro cities and globalization as well as western education. Indians as far as I have observed since my teenage years, have a nasty tendency of assimilating and practicing every trashy culture as well as barbarity that's being thrown up or excreted by the western society and making that the pop trend. I mean come on fellow Indians we are not in the 1700s any more to be fascinated by the shiny skin and pale nature of the westerners. You my brothers and sisters have a very beautiful, very historic, very ethical, very holistic set of customs, traditions and social norms that have fascinated countless historians and philosophers. Yet we consider or social ethics and morals as uncivilized and primitive because some foreigners think so? How intelligent are we?
I mean we are proud to call ourselves the smartest and highly talented group of people on this planet yet we let some white trash guide us in our morals and ethics. I mean seriously have you not learned anything from the fall of all those F***ing so called superpowers and the delayed but imminent fall of some of the UN top countries which i know you who which ones I a referring to without even mentionig. So what i ask you my brothers and sisters is try to make patches to the existing culture rather than chase a culture that has proven multiple times to have failed miserably in being what it promised to be.
I grew up and I still am proud to be part of a culture that regards women as mothers and sisters and goddesses rather than B*****s or H**s or mere friends with benefits. What i have realized over the years is that no man wants to marry a woman who has been around and used up and same goes with women not wanting men who have been fooling around. Why do we have these double standards? Bad boys/girls for dating and having fun with but then when it comes to serious commitments and marriage we all want that virgin of virgins/safe man. Then at the end all blame goes to the men. If the wife cheats its the man's fault, if the man cheats its still his fault, if the woman isn't chaste it was the man's fault, if the man isn't chaste its still his fault, if the man is well mannered and decent its his fault, if the man is too outgoing and play boyish its still his fault, if a girl becomes a s**t its the guys' fault. So unrealistic double standard. Women are advised to not trust men and men advised to trust women. I say if you want equality for real you gotta lose the double standards. You either a hoe or loyal lady. There is no loyal hoe. same with guys, you either a gentle man or a player.
Any one can be stupid and irrational but it takes real character to be wise and rational in life. It upto you and you alone to chose what you want to be and what you can be. Don't let the society or anyone else chose it for you.
My sisters please stop this false propaganda that we as men are the only ones guilty of objectifying you when the truth is you yourselves are doing a majority role in it either knowingly or unknowingly. Just think about it for at least a minute. Think about the logic and please do comment. I would love to know everyone's perspectives on this issue and further uplift my awareness as well. Thank you for your time and brain power spent on this article. Again I say that this is not targeted at offending or hurting anyone.
So Feminism, that is what I want to discuss about in this article. The theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes is deemed the reason behind feminism. Using common sense one can think that his emerged during the times when industries were budding up and women actually started to be part of the non domestic workforce. Yeah, I do agree that times were hard back then for women especially when the men were off at war or something else, and not taking care of the households or their children properly. This was also the time when the traditions and morals were beginning to devolve. Domestic violence was up until then not even a concept because that was normal and just a part of life for women and men. The world population was not as high as we have today. This doesn't mean that domestic violence is a good thing, in fact it is awful and incredible disrespectful but i don't know why people talk about it as if every Indian household is a breeding ground for it.
There was not much opportunity for people to be educated or mass media to promote awareness. People just were beginning to realize the perks of having independent and self governed political bodies rather than kingdoms and empires. However to make these all possible everyone had to have the right to opinionate themselves and women were part of this "everyone". But then again psychologically speaking women are more aggressive and emotionally unstable than men and a bit too irrational at times. This is what might have lead to the emergence now popular open relationships, sleeping around to empower the feminine and find the perfect match and other insanely ironic stupid practices.
These so called new generation feminists are not practicing what they preach, rather what they are showcasing is a desire to actually enforce a female dominance instead of a feminine and masculine equality. They ask for equal treatment but set the social standards as the males being responsible for chivalry and knightly behavior meanwhile women are encouraged to act like their male counterparts or absolute B*****s rather than the ladies they are meant to be. Feminism was not intended i think, to be a platform for women to do everything that they wanted to do but to establish a standard for everyone to follow in case of fundamental and individual rights.
The so called wave of sleep around feminism started hitting the Indian society along with the rise of metro cities and globalization as well as western education. Indians as far as I have observed since my teenage years, have a nasty tendency of assimilating and practicing every trashy culture as well as barbarity that's being thrown up or excreted by the western society and making that the pop trend. I mean come on fellow Indians we are not in the 1700s any more to be fascinated by the shiny skin and pale nature of the westerners. You my brothers and sisters have a very beautiful, very historic, very ethical, very holistic set of customs, traditions and social norms that have fascinated countless historians and philosophers. Yet we consider or social ethics and morals as uncivilized and primitive because some foreigners think so? How intelligent are we?
I mean we are proud to call ourselves the smartest and highly talented group of people on this planet yet we let some white trash guide us in our morals and ethics. I mean seriously have you not learned anything from the fall of all those F***ing so called superpowers and the delayed but imminent fall of some of the UN top countries which i know you who which ones I a referring to without even mentionig. So what i ask you my brothers and sisters is try to make patches to the existing culture rather than chase a culture that has proven multiple times to have failed miserably in being what it promised to be.
I grew up and I still am proud to be part of a culture that regards women as mothers and sisters and goddesses rather than B*****s or H**s or mere friends with benefits. What i have realized over the years is that no man wants to marry a woman who has been around and used up and same goes with women not wanting men who have been fooling around. Why do we have these double standards? Bad boys/girls for dating and having fun with but then when it comes to serious commitments and marriage we all want that virgin of virgins/safe man. Then at the end all blame goes to the men. If the wife cheats its the man's fault, if the man cheats its still his fault, if the woman isn't chaste it was the man's fault, if the man isn't chaste its still his fault, if the man is well mannered and decent its his fault, if the man is too outgoing and play boyish its still his fault, if a girl becomes a s**t its the guys' fault. So unrealistic double standard. Women are advised to not trust men and men advised to trust women. I say if you want equality for real you gotta lose the double standards. You either a hoe or loyal lady. There is no loyal hoe. same with guys, you either a gentle man or a player.
Any one can be stupid and irrational but it takes real character to be wise and rational in life. It upto you and you alone to chose what you want to be and what you can be. Don't let the society or anyone else chose it for you.
My sisters please stop this false propaganda that we as men are the only ones guilty of objectifying you when the truth is you yourselves are doing a majority role in it either knowingly or unknowingly. Just think about it for at least a minute. Think about the logic and please do comment. I would love to know everyone's perspectives on this issue and further uplift my awareness as well. Thank you for your time and brain power spent on this article. Again I say that this is not targeted at offending or hurting anyone.
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